Start by listening without rushing to fix things. Ask what would feel helpful...

https://bizzmarkblog.com/what-should-i-say-when-my-brother-keeps-skipping-family-gatherings/

Start by listening without rushing to fix things. Ask what would feel helpful today, then offer one practical step, like sitting together while they call a counselor or making a meal. You could say, “I care about you, and I’m here to listen